After reading Beloved through the Feminist Lens, Morrison goes against the typical view of women and introduces the new idea of their independence. We especially see this in Sethe’s character. Sethe is a single mother who takes on the both parent roles and plays mother as well as father to her child. To be a mother as well as a father to a child is a huge responsibility. Sethe shows that she is able to take on this responsibility and not dependent on a husband or father figure.
In my culture, I have been taught the complete opposite. It is sad to say that most stereotypes of women are true of Tongan women. Tongans believe that women in general are weak. They believe that women are made that way for the easier tasks in life such as cleaning, cooking, and babysitting. And because of this, a man is needed in their life for the tasks that require strength. Marriage is an expected obstacle for all Tongan women. According to tradition, a man is needed in the Tongan family to handle all the manly work. However, if marriage is not a met obstacle, then a male family member takes over whether that is a brother, cousin, father, or grandfather. A man is needed because women cannot handle the work meant for men. To put it briefly, the Tongan belief is a woman needs a man which is very different from what Morrison suggests in Beloved.
Although this is my culture, my personal beliefs are completely different. Just as Sethe was independent and strong, I believe many women can also be independent and strong. Sethe serves as proof that it is possible for women to do everything a man can.